The Loneliness Of The Work From Home Blogger

I always used to think working from home was cushy.  As I’ve written before, I saw it as a chance to work in your PJs accompanied by the muted shouting of Jeremy Kyle or the incessant giggling of Phil and Holly.

working from home - woman drinking coffee whilst typing on a laptop

Working from home may take some adapting to if you enjoy company

In truth, after dropping the kids off to school and waving the Husband off for another 3 or 4-day stint in London or somewhere abroad, it is, briefly, wonderful to have the house to myself.

The quiet is soothing  – I say quiet because when you have tinnitus you never really experience silence – just an absence of different types of noise.

But after a while, it dawns on me that I am quite alone and responsible for passing the school hours in a productive fashion.

There should be a book called the loneliness of the llong-distanceblogger because, you see, without colleagues, team-mates, co-workers, call them what you will, those six hours can seem very long.

I am one of a faceless army of home workers carrying out chores such as data entry jobs, photo editing and social media management.

Ironic since, generally, I have always preferred to work on my own but it’s nice to have someone to bounce ideas off, isn’t it?  Or share a quick natter over a coffee.

I think there is a definite need for more co-working spaces.  Some ensconce themselves in coffee shops to benefit from the free WiFi.  Perfectly acceptable, I think, if you are buying more than one coffee and are not sitting there nursing your solitary drink for hours hogging a table.

The only other option seems to be renting a serviced office but who has the funds for that?

Perhaps the answer is to form an online community and to communicate via Skype or Facebook Live but these always feel so forced and lots of us hate appearing on our own PC screens.

And whilst there is a certain amount of information sharing amongst bloggers, you rarely get to know really useful information – for example ,statistics such as page views and users.

We are all just blogging in the wilderness relying on indexes such as Tots100 to give us an idea of how we are doing.

Some blog for themselves and don’t care about stats but for those of us whose blog is now our job, the guess work is exhausting.  And probably unnecessary.

After all, the big retailers all know how each other is doing. Profits and losses are declared. There is a greater degree of openness (never total of course) about progress.

One of the biggest blogger bugbears is the apparent randomness of fees paid by brands and PR agencies. Some bloggers hold out for a decent fee, some will just take the cash, no matter how low (for example £10) and it is a personal choice.

But if we’re not sharing information, how can we ever create a level playing field for blogger fees?

You can’t have it both ways.

So I think that there is huge potential in local bloggers meeting up – not just to socialise but to work together and to discuss competitive strategy and ideas for collaboration.

That would be vastly more productive than listening to the chuntering of ITV Daytime, wouldn’t it?

Are you a blogger? How do you find working from home?


Ex marketing professional turned family lifestyle blogger. I live in Cardiff with hubby Mat, Caitlin (10) and Ieuan (8).

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