Problem Page Edition 40 2017
In this week’s problem page from your agony aunt online – is it normal for your husband to text you 10 times a day, can a man with money keep a woman no matter what and why he just won’t initiate texts.
If you would like any advice, just message me or add a comment at the end of this post and I will answer selected questions on this problem page.
Here are this week’s questions to your agony aunt online.
Q: Why doesn’t he initiate texts?
A: There are several possible reasons.
- he just isn’t interested. If he was he would be doing everything possible to pursue you.
- you are coming over too keen and pushy and putting him off (are you texting him all the time)
- he hates using the phone
The acid test of a good relationship is not whether someone texts, it’s how often you SPEAK in person and meet up.
After all, you’re having a relationship with him, not his mobile.
If you suspect he isn’t that keen I would back off and, frustrating though it is, wait for him to chase YOU.
Q: My girlfriend broke up with me because I made a stupid mistake and cheated on her. I’m in no way over her but think going on some dates may help. How long should I wait before going on Tinder?
Q: My ex who suddenly and cruelly dumped me for no reason by text is now wanting to be friends. Is she having a laugh?
A: Are you sure there was no reason? No sign that things weren’t going well? Did her behaviour towards you begin to change? Did you pay her less attention?
Dumping someone by text is pretty childish and in a way an indication that it was a spur of the moment thing.
I agree with another poster who suggests that there may have been someone else in the picture who has now dumped her.
I can tell by the way you phrased the question that you are still deeply angry and if you feel like that she would have to be someone incredibly special to want to reignite your relationship.
Only you can answer that one, but in your shoes, I’d give her a wide berth. I’d say something like, “well there’s no point in being enemies but I’m really busy right now” and leave it like that.
Q: Is it too creepy and clingy if I text my wife 10+ messages every day to tell her that I love her and to thank her for being my wife?
A: No he can’t. Unless he locks her away somewhere. Not every woman is impressed by a man’s money or power. Many women would prefer to earn their own money, power and prestige.
There are some women who will stay for a man for the material things he can provide but that shouldn’t be confused with love because, if the money dries up, off the women go.
I’m not quite sure about the basis for your question – it sounds as if you are having an affair and she has a wealthy husband?
How would you have responded to the questions on this week’s problem page? I’d love to know.
You can find more dating advice from your agony aunt online in these posts:-
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